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Week-on/week-off vs 2-2-5-5 vs 2-2-3: which pattern suits your kids?

Every pattern is a trade-off between time apart and the number of handovers. Here's how the common ones compare over two weeks.

PatternTwo-week shapeLongest time apartHandovers / 2 weeksOften suits
Week on / week off7 nights, then 7 nights7 nights2School-age kids, homes close together
2-2-5-5Fixed weekdays each, alternate long weekends5 nights4Kids who like the same weekdays every week
2-2-32, 2, 3 nights, flipping each week3 nights6Younger children
Alternate weekends + midweekOne home has most nights; the other has every second weekend and a midweek nightabout 6 nightsabout 6When one home is the school base
1st, 3rd and 5th weekendsWeekends follow the calendar month, not a 2-week cyclevariesvariesPlans written around "weekends of the month"

Children's needs change with age. Many families start with shorter blocks for little ones and move to longer blocks later.

Handemova supports all five, and you can add one-off swaps on top without touching the base pattern.

General information only. Talk to a family dispute resolution practitioner or lawyer about what fits your family.

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